Sometimes your feelings for the person you love are so strong that you confuse him or her for a lifetime partner while it is exactly the opposite.
But it just happens. You fall in love deeply and you become blind to the fact the other person is not that into you and probably doesn’t see their future with you in it.
And when you eventually realize you’ve made a mistake, the only thing you could do is to leave this dead-end relationship as soon as possible.
Although It is the only right thing to do it could be both tragic and extremely difficult to leave someone who you love to the bottom of your heart.
But sometimes the sadness that comes with a break-up is the price you have to pay for being happy in the future. Remember – only after letting go of the wrong person can you find the right one.
However, this is easier said than done. And the only way to be strong enough to do it is to know that some things in this world are just not meant for you. So if this is the case with your relationship, you have to accept it. Otherwise, you risk wasting your life. After all, our time is not endless, so we shouldn’t spend it with someone who is not able to give us what we need and deserve.
In fact, there are so many relationships that lead nowhere because there are so many people who don’t know who they really are and where they are going.
And they keep making mistakes either because they are incapable of seeing or admitting the truth or because they are afraid of the fact they are wrong.
Undoubtedly making a mistake is not nice but, people we should never forget that we learn our most precious lessons from the mistakes we make, especially when it comes to love.
Below you could read some painful yet extremely valuable lessons about love that life teaches us:
Love should be reciprocated.
It has to go both ways to last. One-sided feelings are not enough for a relationship.
True love means being strong.
The person who really wants to be with you will find a way to do that no matter what comes their way. They will love you at your best as much as they love you at your worst.
Love is kind.
Love me tender, love me true
All my dreams fulfill
For my darling I love you
And I always will…
There is so much truth in the lyrics of the song “Love me tender”. Being real, kind and supportive to your partner is what true love is all about.
True love should be supportive.
A partner who truly loves you is someone who would always be ready to listen to you and try to do everything they could to help you. Never forget that when you are in a relationship and wonder whether your significant other loves you truly.
Love should make you smile.
Problems are an inevitable part of every relationship even between people who love each other. Yet if the moments of sadness are much more than the moments of happiness this relationship is not based on true love.
So if your partner isn’t loving you that way, you might be in the wrong relationship with the wrong person.
However, you shouldn’t feel pity for yourself. Be grateful for the mistake you’ve made. It prepared you for the person who is really meant for you. It made you realize what true love is and what you should be expecting from your relationship.
It prepared you for recognizing your forever person.
So once you meet them you’ll know that they are someone you could spend your life with because what they give is pure, unconditional love.
Your forever person is the one who will always be there for you no matter what. He or she will be much more than just a nice company to spend your spare time with. Your forever person will be your lover, your friend, your soulmate, your all. And you will mean the world to them.
They will crave spending time with you and will see you in their future. They will be the ones who always support you and help you feel that inner peace you’ve searched for all your life.
And although there will be problems most of the time you will feel like you are floating on cloud nine. Because you’ve finally found the one, your forever person, the partner who will never leave you no matter what.
