The 10 things you CAN’T buy with money
Money has value, as it provides financial security, which is essential these days.
If used right, it can be a powerful tool that can change millions of lives for the better. So, no, there is nothing messed up about having money.
However, there are too many people, especially those who live in luxury without working a single day for it, who don’t understand the true purpose of money. They believe that the more money they have, the happier they will be. Sadly, most of them end up disappointed, learning the hard way that a hefty bank account is not the answer to their questions.
Here are 10 things money CAN’T buy.
You cannot return the past. You cannot pre-order the future. All you have is now. And all the money in the world is powerless to that fact. Right now you are older than you have ever been and younger than you will ever be. So use that to your advantage. Seize the day. Then let it go to make place for the next one.
In the wise words of Seneca, “Life, if well lived, is long enough.” So live your life well and appreciate every moment of it, as no matter how much money you have, it will never be enough to buy you more time.
Inner peace is something many of us lack nowadays. We are constantly struggling with stress, anxiety, and overthinking, making it incredibly hard for us to maintain peace of mind. Far too many people are convinced that the richer they get, the more secure they will be, which will give them the tranquility they crave.
However, they fail to realize that, usually, the more money you make, the more responsibilities you have. Adding more zeros to your bank account will not bring you peace. But taking time to reconnect with yourself ad reflect on what truly matters to you and what brings value to your life might help.
Money can buy healthcare and medicine. With it, you can purchase painkillers, medical assistants, and life support machines. But there is one essential thing they are worthless for. Regardless of the wealth you have, it cannot replace your natural health once it’s gone.
On the other hand, money can help you maintain a healthy lifestyle, eat clean, exercise, meditate, and practice self-care. But all of these things you can achieve without it as well. You do need money to buy food, but the amount you will spend on that is insignificant, compared to the massive medical bill you might have if you rely only on medication to be healthy.
Unfortunately, money cannot buy truth, but it can take it away. There are many examples of wealthy people abusing their influence by choosing the truth their followers receive. They carefully select the information they want to be considered credible and feed it to others, playing with their minds like puppeteers.
Thankfully, history has shown multiple times that the truth, the real truth, always comes out in the end. And money can’t do anything about it.
Sure, being rich attracts a lot of people to your orbit, but how many of them will stay if you go completely broke? The ones who stay despite your financial situation are the real ones. The rest are simply going to replace you with someone else seeking “true” friendship through cash.
Although money can’t buy you genuine friends, it can help you distinguish who are the real ones. In a way, it can be a powerful tool to help you surround yourself with people who value you for your personality, or at least to cut off those who like you only when your pockets are full.
Manners maketh man. In other words, your mannerisms and characteristics make you who you are. Politeness, etiquette, and class are things you cannot obtain from an online store. It is something you must learn and live by. Even if money can get you a higher class position in society, it definitely doesn’t make you classy. The difference is overwhelming.
To be present in the moment means to acknowledge it, to accept it, and to embrace it. No judgment, no prejudice, no bias. It is not about simply being there. It is about being mindful of what’s happening around you and acting upon it. And because you will never have the same moment twice, you should make it count.
As Marshall B. Rosenberg once said, “Your presence is the most precious gift you can give to another human being.” This has absolutely nothing to do with money.
You can buy access to information, but you cannot purchase the way you will accept, comprehend, and use that knowledge. Some people know a lot of details about many different areas of life, but they lack natural intelligence – the one you obtain from actually living life and diving into its depths driven by curiosity. They also lack emotional intelligence, which is the ability to perceive, use, understand, manage, and handle emotions.
The difference between knowing a lot and being mindfully intelligent is perfectly described in Charles Dickens’ classic Hard Times. As the eminent English writer says, “There is a wisdom of the head, and… there is a wisdom of the heart.”
Yes, you can pay for piano lessons and spend years perfecting sonatas that are already written by someone else. But there is one essential thing you can’t buy – the talent you need to actually feel the music, see it in your mind, and materialize it in its most beautiful form. Anyone can learn how to play, but only the truly gifted ones can sense the melody with every single fiber of their body.
Love is invaluable and timeless. It is one of the most powerful forces that drive every living soul on Earth. In its true form, love is genuine, heartfelt, and unreserved. It is not a product you can own or a service you can benefit from.
Whoever tells you differently is someone who has been hurt before, believing that love was the reason for their pain. But it is never love. It is rather the way some people disregard it and treat it as a product instead of a feeling.
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