Why there is no such thing as a ‘perfect relationship’

The perfect relationship does not exist and that is a fact we all have to deal with.

Yes, you might believe that there are some people in the world who just have it all, but be sure, they do not.

Even the greatest relationships are actually quite flawed.

They are filled with challenges, ups and downs, harsh changes and a lot more things that go on behind the scenes.

While it could seem like the couple did not fight and have it all figured out, that is not truly the case. All of us have our disagreements and issues, and often our relationships are more tiring than we ever thought they could be, but we stick with it because we love one another.

The difference is that instead of running for the hills when things get heated these ‘perfect’ couples choose to stand by each other. They grow as a team rather than growing apart even though it may not all be as perfect as they would like it to be. Rather than pushing a forcing a person to change so he or she can fit the other person’s requirements, they both make the necessary compromises in order to keep going as a team.

If your partner is not allowing you to grow as a person, you have made the wrong choice. Instead of being with someone who is encouraging you to become a better version of yourself, you are letting someone who is holding you back control you. And if that is the case, be sure that they are controlling you more than you may realize.

While you and your significant other might not be the perfect couple, you still have something special.

Because together you are able to work through your differences and find the things that make you hold onto and love each other.

The more harsh territory you and your partner get through the tighter your bond will become. Sure, sometimes it is going to be difficult to stick together but that is a decision you will never find yourself questioning if you are with the right person. If you both really love each other there is nothing you two cannot overcome.

Real love isn’t something everyone in this world finds so if you have found it you should never take it for granted.

Sometimes we find ourselves treating the people we love the most in terrible ways and when that happens we risk ruining the most precious connections we could ever experience in our lives. If your other half is always there for you, make sure they know that you are grateful for that.

Life is too short to spend it around people who are not going to be there for you when you need them. You deserve a person in your love life who will care for you and put in the same efforts as you into the relationship. Real love may not be what you have expected but be sure, it is what you most need.

Do you believe that there is such a thing as a ‘perfect’ relationship?

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