This one is for the woman who hasn’t been herself lately
Dear lost soul,
When was the last time you felt good in your own skin? Does it feel like you haven’t been yourself lately?
Don’t worry. It will all come back. Soon, you will remember what it’s like to feel free in your own body. Just have some patience, and make sure you never lose hope. What you’re currently going through is only a phase.
Maybe you feel like your whole life is falling apart. But it’s not. You only need to find the strength within you to fight the pain and get back up on your feet. What you’re experiencing right now is only a small chapter of your journey. It does not define you as a person.
But for now, you feel like every decision you make is getting worse and worse. You have lost control over your life. Nothing seems to go in the right direction. And you wonder, how would you be able to get out of this mess your life turned into. Your heart has been broken into a million pieces, and you have no idea how to fix it. You feel powerless.
Remember this: Nothing lasts forever. Your struggles will soon be over, and you will feel comfortable in your own skin again.
Don’t you dare thinking of giving up. You’ve got this! You are strong enough to overcome these hard times. As soon as you find the power within you, you will show the world who you truly are. You have all the strength you need to take the wheel of your life. Soon you will start doing the things that make you truly happy. Just have a little faith.
Everything is figureoutable. Relationships, heartbreaks, losses… Every challenge you experience comes in your life for a reason. This dark phase you find yourself in right now is here to help you rise even higher than you’ve ever been before. The stars won’t shine without a little darkness.
What you need to understand is that you’re not alone in this pain. We all have been victims of our own thoughts. All of us have had their hearts broken and have felt like it was the end of the world. There are times when we believe there is no significant purpose in our lives.
In times of struggle, we quickly lose hope, and we let anxiety and depression take over. We tend to forget how strong we actually are. We let our own thoughts completely mess our minds up. This makes us feel worthless and incapable of being loved. We start blaming ourselves and think we could have done something differently. But we didn’t, and this is killing us.
You need to let go of this burden, and stop letting your past consume you.
This doesn’t mean to just walk away and never look back. It means that you need to learn how to forgive. Forgiveness is what will liberate you from all this burden. Once you forgive the ones that hurt you, including you, you will finally remind yourself what it was like to feel comfortable in your own skin.
Never forget who you are! And never underestimate yourself. You are capable of so much more than you believe you are right now. Maybe you’ve stopped believing in yourself for a little while. Lucky for you, you are strong enough to overpower your own mind. Soon, you will remember who you truly are and what are you aiming for.
Know this – life will never make you face anything you can’t handle. Every challenge on your way is there to teach you a valuable lesson. Even the unbearable situation you are in right now is happening for a reason. It will all be over soon, and you will rise stronger, bolder, and more resilient than ever.
And most importantly, you will feel like yourself again. You will be at peace with your thoughts. So take a deep breath, give yourself a little time, and be patient. All the pieces of your life will find their right place, and soon it will all make sense.
A stranger who understands what you’re going through.