Being unsure about your man’s feelings for you can definitely play games with your head.
You are trying to analyze every little change in his behavior or speech to try and determine whether he still has feelings for you or not. But rather than driving yourself crazy trying to figure out what’s going on in his mind, focus on his actions. Is he taking ages to reply to your texts and ignoring your phone calls? Does he treat you like a buddy? If so, he’s just not that attracted to you. And the sooner you come to terms with this, the sooner you can take your life back and find someone who loves you from the bottom of his heart.
Here are 10 signs to tell if he’s not attracted to you anymore.
1. He gets upset by everything you do
When a guy is truly into you, he will ignore all the little annoying quirks you have. But if he stops being attracted to you, all those quirks will become increasingly aggravating, and can even make your formerly relaxed partner get snippy with you.
2. He is struggling with to get it up… increasingly often.
This is perhaps one of the most obvious signs that something is missing in your love life. If he is healthy and generally in a good mood, there is just no good reason he shouldn’t be able to get regular erections.
3. He never gets jealous
Jealousy is a natural thing, especially when it comes to a guy who is truly interested in you. But if your guy never bats an eye when he sees you texting or having a smiley conversation with another guy, he’s just not attracted to you. And don’t even bother trying to make him jealous, because he simply doesn’t care.
4. He doesn’t commit to making plans with you
If he used to schedule in time for you and now he cannot even pencil you to make plans, then there’s definitely something wrong going on. It’s possible that he wants to see if something better than spending time with you comes up first.
If he does not show commitment in spending time with you, then be sure, his interest in you has gone down. You should not be begging him to make plans.
5. It’s all about him
If your guy is happy to make every conversation about him and never about you, then it’s most probably time you start packing your things.
Relationships should be based on a give and take principle, and if he does not show interest in your day or the things that are important to you, you should just move on.
Your man should want to know all about you. He must have a vested interest in you if this relationship is to survive.
6. He only wants to be with you if there are other people around or he’s been drinking
If you start noticing that most of the time you spend together is within a group, he could be losing his interest in you.
A man who wants you in his life will want to spend time with you alone to get to know you better. Too many group activities are a sign that you might be entering the friendzone, and once you go in there, good luck with getting out.
Also, if it’s gotten to the point that he feels the need to be tipsy in order to be with you, his interest is long gone.
7. A gut feeling keeps eating away at you
Oftentimes, your gut just knows when something’s wrong. He may be doing all the right things but you can feel that his heart is just not into it anymore. Or maybe you can see that he’s not looking at you the same way as before.
But since your gut feeling cannot be counted as solid evidence, you would naturally want to talk to him to make things clear and confirm whether your suspicions are correct.
8. He’s treating you like a friend
This is another strong signal he’s lost interest in you. If you feel like you’ve become just friends or friends with benefits, you should take a step back and look at some other clues he is leaving for you.
Friendship is fine but not when you want a life partner. Try having a chat with him and see if your worries will prove to be true.
9. He rejects you most of the time while coming up with reasons not to sleep with you
If he is not even remotely accepting of your sexual advances, there’s a high likelihood he has lost interest. While he still may be open to sexual encounters when under this low libido spell, they are just not as frequent as they used to be.
10. He avoids being seen with you in public
If he used to have no issue with holding hands with you and all of a sudden he is stepping away, then something fishy is going on. A few possible explanations may give an answer to this.
It’s highly possible that he is now interested in someone else and does not want to be seen with you in public because that would scare off his new love interest. Or it may be the case that he doesn’t want to be seen with you at all.
If you sense that he’s avoiding to be seen with you, you should get out of this relationship. You deserve someone who likes you enough to not be embarrassed when seen by your side out in public.
Relationships are never easy. It’s normal to want to avoid getting hurt, and this is why it’s very important to consider and understand the signs that show he’s not interested in you anymore. Sure, it will hurt for a while but it really is for the better because dragging on a relationship with a guy who does not deserve you is never the right choice.
Use these telling signs and follow your gut feeling in order to figure out whether or not you have a man worthy of spending your life with.
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