It is no secret that we as people admire those who have a fearless attitude and healthy self-confidence.
In this instance (unlike others), it goes the same for both the female and male part of the population: having an adventurous heart and a lot of toughness to you…well you would be a what most people’s dreams are made of.
So, here are five main characteristics that would get anyone to be head over heels for you.
1. Open to new trying out new things/adventurous
There is something really attractive to e person who is a risk-taker and does not fear ‘the unknown’. Moreover, trying out new things and generally being an adventurous type of person has a certain adrenaline rush to it, paving the way to rekindling the fire in any relationship.
All in all, having an open mind and the willingness to try something before you judge are definitely traits worth having (and, therefore, mentioning in this list).
2. The art of flirting and seductiveness
Flirting is the gentle art of making a man feel pleased with himself. — Helen Rowland
In a traditional sense, men are expected to make the first move. Needless to say, that can be very attractive as it shows a possibly forgotten gentleman trait in modern times. It is always highly charming to receive well thought out (flirtatious) attention from the person you are interested in as a woman.
However, it goes the same for the females in this instance. If a woman can manage to playfully take the lead that would pleasantly surprise the male partner. The fact of the matter is, there are a plethora of ways you could be seductive- from your choice of clothing to your actions, which would definitely bring a sparkle to the relationship.
Confidence is unquestionably sexy. No doubt about that. Nothing is more attractive to e person than a healthy amount of confidence and charisma. That really adds to your overall appearance and the energy you have going on for you.
Having said that, independence is also very much interconnected with charisma and individuality. A person who does not rely on other people for their happiness and makes their own decisions 100% of the time is absolutely something that makes men and women stop and stare.
4. Intelligent conversation
“Good communication is as stimulating as black coffee and just as hard to sleep after.” ―
To be completely fair, the ability to participate in an intelligent, interesting conversation is a key factor in being appealing to anybody, really. On top of that, hearing someone speak about their passions in such a bright manner is even a more attractive trait.
Discussing a topic, be it politics, philosophy, or whatever your interests might be, shows open-mindedness and genuine interest in the person you are talking to. Getting into an intriguing conversation can very quickly help the interaction run smoothly and even..seductively.
5. Being tough and straightforward
Most people like those with initiative and the capacity to independently solve their problems or voice their opinions fearlessly. Waiting around, full with insecurity and unable to make a decision on your own…that is typically not a flattering quality to have. On the other hand, taking action and pulling yourself together is very admirable and quite sexy.
In addition, being straightforward is also a desirable component to a free-spirited and bold nature. You would say what you think and would not be distracted by what anyone has to say about it.
Speaking your truth is powerful in that sense.
In conclusion, the mentioned above are examples of qualities that would be intriguing to arguably most people on this planet. Needless to say, there is a lot more to an individual personality than those traits, however, they do make a great impression and would serve you very well indeed.