8 Things Someone Who Loves You to The Moon And Back Would Do Unkowingly (Backed By Experts)
“And now here is my secret, a very simple secret: It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.” The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry.
Relationships, especially romantic ones, bring a lot of happiness and beautiful moments but at the same time could cause terrible pain and break our heart .
The reason for this contradiction is that in the beginning, most people look at their partner through rose-colored glasses. That’s why they can’t make accurate judgments about that person’s character and the potential of the partnership in the long term. So, it’s a little surprise that as time goes by people start to see their significant other’s flaws and things don’t look as perfect as they did in the first months. That’s when serious problems begin.
So, is there a way to avoid disappointment when it comes to love? Can we be sure that when our patner says they love us they really mean it?
According to experts words are not realible source of reassurance of someone’s feelings. But, actions are. That’s why with the help of experts below we’ve outlined 8 things someone who loves you to the moon and back would surely do for you:
1. They know your true colors and accept you for who you are
Your partner knows that you have flaws but they love you anyway. They accept you for who you are and would never try to change you. Here is the opinion of the couple counselor Anne Marie Foscolo:
“When it comes to romantic partners, you should look for someone who is OK if you have a bad day and are not in a mood to talk or make sex. Someone who feels happy just to lie next to you in bed and watch you sleeping.”
2. They unknowingly remember things about you
A person who truly loves you won’t forget you don’t like mint tea for instance. They might also remember a lot of things about you from your daily conversations or from conversations with others.
Here is what Bethany Ricciardi, sex educator and relationship expert with Too Timid “The Romance Company” says to Bustle:
“They may not even realize they’re doing it,” she says. “They just care so much they can’t help but remember the little things when it comes to you.”
3. They always keep in touch
If your partner communicates with you as often as possible this proves they feel deeply connected with you and they are constantly thinking of you:
“Believe it or not, something as simple as a ‘good morning’ text can show someone has deep feelings for you,” Dresean Ryan, a relationship expert with KiwiSearches, explains to Bustle.
We usually tell our close people how we feel or what we are going through. But what could reveal if someone really loves you is whether or not they are empathetic with you and try to walk in your shoes.
“If you spend enough time with someone you’ll find yourself caring deeply and your mood can very easily be affected by theirs “, Riccardi says.
5. Their company makes you happy
Another thing revealing if you and your partner really love each other is how you feel when you are together. That is one of the most important reassurances that you love each other and are a good match according to Anne Marie Foscolo:
“If both of you are impatient to get home and see each other because this makes you happy and relieves the stress after a bad day then you are on the right track in your relationship.”
6. You can efortlessly look at each other for a long time
Body language is also important and could reveal how we get along with our partner says body language expert Traci Brown:
“You’ll be OK looking each other in the eye at close range — just a few inches,” she says to Elite Daily. “That’s really uncomfortable to do with people you’re not intimate with.”So, it turns out that if you and your partner can look at each other’s eyes without talking, or blinking, you are actually very close.
7. They make long term plans with you
Another important sign is if your partner includes you in their future plans. Here is what Riccardi says about the importance of having (serious) future plans with your partner:
“Creating a future with someone, or, dreaming about one, says ‘I love you,” she says to Bustle.
8. They know it’s not going to be easy
If your partner loves you sincerely, they won’t feel afraid when difficulties come your way.
So, you can easily tell whether or not someone loves you by the way they treat you. If to them there’s nothing more important than the relationship with you this means you really have found someone who loves you to the moon and back.
Are you happy with your partner?
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