“Genuine and true love is so rare that when you encounter it in any form, it’s a wonderful thing, to be utterly cherished in whatever form it takes.”
– Gwendoline Christie
Getting the attention of that special someone can be hard. You want to prove to him that you are everything he would ever need, but how? Characters in romantic films have been doing this for a long time, but translating it into reality is not quite the same.
There are some key things to keep in mind when you’re looking for a man to fall in love with you.
If you follow the following steps, you’ll increase your chances of success:
1. Be yourself
Being yourself when you’re trying to attract the right person is key. You won’t be doing yourself any favors if you put a mask on.
By not being yourself, you are signaling that you are not comfortable with who you are. Many men will easily spot this and quickly become disinterested.
You might be able to fool someone for a short amount of time, but sooner or later you will grow tired of hiding who you truly are. At the same time, he will get tired of trying to figure out who you really are and whether you’re actually being sincere.
2. Let him miss you
Spending some time apart can be a healthy exercise for couples. It gives each of you the opportunity to do your own thing and spend time with friends.
It will give you something to talk about when you’re back in each other’s arms. Having some time apart can provide a needed balance to your relationship, and it gives you both the opportunity to miss one another.
And when he misses you, he will think about you and his feelings for you. All the good things!
3. Get physical
Men don’t always have to be the ones who chase physical pleasure. Moreover, they love it when a woman leans in for a kiss, opens up for a big hug, or goes for something more intimate.
If you aren’t together yet, find subtle ways to gently touch him and see how he responds. Brief touches are good and have been shown to make a difference.
4. Talk, but also listen
When you want to make a guy fall for you, it is important that hear him out. Do not just talk. If you chatter non-stop when you are nervous, find a way to cope with your nerves.
Many women make the mistake of talking more than they listen when they are out with a potential male partner. Of course, men do it too. But this is a big mistake and can easily make a person run for the hills.
Every guy who is normally not talkative will have something to say. We all like to be heard, no matter if shy or not. If you keep on endlessly talking without giving him the chance to express himself, he will likely get disappointed. Making it difficult for him to get a sentence in could lower your chances of him falling in love with you.
Confidence is crucial. Without confidence, you risk losing a good person.
If you want a man to fall for you, you need to show confidence in yourself that will eventually make you approach him without being afraid or sensing any danger.
Liking and respecting yourself will make it easier for him to feel the same way towards you. You are an amazing person with something special to offer. Be confident that you are worthy of true love.
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