Your insecurities do not define you. So stop letting them control your life.
Have you noticed that people with the most beautiful souls spend most of their lives feeling anxious and insecure? These people are being constantly hurt by their own thoughts, and often feel like they are not good enough.
The truth is, it all begins and ends in your mind.
If you let negative thoughts take over your consciousness, you will tear your self-esteem apart. By focusing only on your flaws and your pitfalls, you do nothing but boost your nagging anxiety.
What you need to know is that if you let your insecurities control you, you would never be truly happy with your life.
It’s all up to you.
Perhaps you’ve doubted your worth many times, and you still do. You’ve asked yourself “Am I good enough?” a thousand times. And maybe, you never realized that this self-doubt stops you from living the life you’ve always dreamed of.
Nothing holds you back more than your own insecurities.
Is there a little voice in your head that tells you, you don’t deserve to be happy? You need to kill that devilish voice right now! Stop burdening your sensitive mind with sich harming thoughts.
All these insecurities are eating you alive. They are the reason you haven’t fulfilled your true potential by now. They are stopping you from making the first step towards your dream life. And this very first step is so damn important because after you gain the courage to take it, everything else will come into place.
Unfortunately, you’ve given up many dreams and goals you had because of this hellish inner voice. The one that tells you, you aren’t smart enough to get in that college, or you’re not strong enough to get through this by yourself. You’re constantly questioning your qualities, your talents, and your competence. Somehow, you’ve convinced yourself you would never be good enough.
You need to wake up from all these lies you created in your head.
Repeat after me: Not everyone is better than you. Not everyone is smarter than you. Life is not a competition. Now let that sink in.
Sooner or later, you will realize that every disappointment and failure you’ve experienced was caused by your own self-doubt.
Fortunately, you are strong enough to overcome your insecurities and reconnect with your true self.
You are able enough to take that first step and conquer your life the way you want to.
What you need to do right now is challenge yourself. Make an effort to change drastically the course of your life, by focusing on the great things in it. Stop doubting yourself for a second, and appreciate all the things that make you the amazing person you are.
It’s time for you to start doing things that spark joy in you.
First, you have to learn how to control your thoughts. Don’t let your regrets and fears consume you. It’s easier said than done, but it’s essential if you genuinely want to change your life for the better.
Then, you need to understand that you are not made of flaws and failures.
Your insecurities do not define your worth.
If you take a minute to acknowledge all the things you should be grateful for, you will see that, along with your flaws, you have many wonderful qualities, and reasons to live for.
Perhaps the most difficult move would be stepping out of your comfort zone. Because like it or not, you’ve turned your messy sad headspace into your comfort zone. You need to change that. By doing so, you will surely stop being afraid of challenging yourself, and you will be constantly motivated to keep doing the best you can. Only this way you will reach the success and the happiness you desire so much.
The best gift you can give yourself is faith.
You have to be patient with yourself. Your life is not a race you should win at any cost. You have your own unique journey and your own personal goals. Comparing yourself to others will only stop you. Instead of wondering why someone else is better than you in something, focus on your own progress.
You are braver than you think. All you need to do is have faith in yourself and keep going. Believe in your self-worth, and the rest will follow.