When a strong woman says it’s over, there is nothing you can do about it
The strong woman is not your ordinary quiet and modest girl.
She’s not someone whose light you can easily dim. This woman is truly extraordinary. Do you know why? Because she is always true to herself, and she would never let herself get stuck in an unhealthy relationship.
She is perfectly aware of what she deserves in life.
She sees the world differently than any other woman. That’s why this brilliant girl knows that sometimes in life, things need to come to an end.
What’s more, this strong woman understands that crying for too long after a breakup is simply not necessary.
She knows that sometimes separation is inevitable. Besides, she wouldn’t start blaming you for your failed relationship. She would simply accept the consequences and gracefully move on. As the stunning actress Scarlett Jonahsson once said:
“Crying for too long is unproductive. When love is over you must learn from it, so you can do better next time and learn how to give more in future relationships.”
If she sees that your relationship is no longer working out, not only she would let you leave, but she would also encourage you to do so.
In case you are the one who decides to end things, she will genuinely respect your choice. No matter how hard it would be for her, she knows you deserve to be happy. She wouldn’t be the one to keep you away from your happiness. Her remarkable emotional strength will help her get through it all.
When she loves, she loves with her whole heart and soul. However, when her heart gets broken, she is confident enough to know that she will survive through the pain. She has already experienced many betrayals and many losses in her life. They made her this strong woman she is today, and prepared her for any challenge life brings her from now on.
Any intelligent and self-reliant woman knows that she doesn’t need to chase or beg anyone, neither for attention nor for love. Real genuine love should never be forced. It should be the most natural and magical feeling of all. When it starts to bring pain and agony, this is no longer love.
This strong woman realizes that after all, every ending leads to a whole new exciting beginning.
She knows that if this relationship wasn’t a success, it was still a life lesson that will clear her vision for the world around her. Besides, it also means that her true love is still out there, waiting for the right time to come into her life.
She wouldn’t let one breakup bring her down and shatter her dreams. Instead, she would get even more motivated to keep achieving her goals and working on her self-growth. Rather than just surviving the breakup, she will evolve so exceptionally, she’d amaze everyone around her.
No, she wouldn’t beg you to come back to her. She won’t make a fool of herself wanting to revive a dying love. She is better than that. Once she says goodbye, there is no turning back. Her next move would be to focus entirely on her own wellbeing.
She is not someone who will get stuck in a dying relationship. Once you leave her, you will surely realize that it is all your loss, not hers.
In case one day you realize what you’ve missed and decide you want her back, it would be too late. If you didn’t appreciate her in time, she wouldn’t give you a second chance. Not because she will act all bitchy and offended, but because she knows her worth, and she wouldn’t let anyone mistreat her ever again.