To All Those Men Who Have a Good Woman in Their Life, Love Her Right or She Will Leave

Every single person in this world needs love. Unfortunately, only a few manage to find true, authentic, pure love that’s worth going the extra mile for. While most people are searching throughout their whole life for their perfect match, only a few are lucky enough to find it. So, if you’re amongst the blessed souls who have managed to find and be loved by a genuine woman, never let her go. Because, believe it or not, finding a good woman in today’s world is incredibly rare.

Here are 7 things you need to do if you don’t want to lose the amazing woman by your side.

1. Be the one she wants to vent to.

Trust is built with time and patience. If you are patient enough to wait until she feels comfortable sharing her thoughts with you, and if you give her the time she needs to see she can trust you, your efforts will be granted. Being with someone you can talk to about anything and everything is truly a blessing. So if you want to keep your precious woman beside you, do your best to show her that you can be that someone for her.

2. Don’t force her to choose between you and her family.

Even though you may already hold a special place in her heart, it doesn’t mean you have the right to steal all of her attention to yourself. You need to understand that she has a life of her own, she has friends and family she loves, and she needs to spend time with them too. If you put her in a situation where she needs to choose between you and the rest of the people she loves, it will tear her heart apart. Moreover, it will make her realize you underestimate her free spirit by wanting her only for yourself. Sooner or later, she will refuse to put up with such a limitation and will walk away from the chains you’re trying to put her in.

3. Don’t stay silent.

Whenever you’re in the middle of a fight, or there’s been some misunderstanding between you two, don’t shut her out. Staying silent and refusing to express your true thoughts and feelings will only make things worse. If there’s anything all the cheesy romantic movies are right about, it’s that talking things through is crucial when it comes to relationship issues. Even when it hurts, even when it seems pointless, tell her how you feel and explain to her what made you feel that way. Be sure that she will do the same because she’s a grown-up lady, and she knows that no problem could be ever solved if it’s simply ignored.

4. Let her know her secrets are safe with you.

For a woman, sharing her secrets with someone is a sacred act. Once she feels comfortable in your company, and you’ve shown her she can trust you, she will know her secrets will be safe with you. You will be the one who has the amazing chance to see her true colors in their most vulnerable form. But if you break her trust by letting her secrets out, you will never have this opportunity again.

5. Grow with her.

There is one thing many people fail to realize before entering a new relationship. This amazing woman you are with now had a life before you came along. She had big dreams, and in fact, she still does. In your role as her partner, you need to be there for her, and help her on her journey to achieving these big dreams. She is ambitious enough to accomplish her goals with or without you. So instead of trying to block her personal growth, grow with her.

6. Let her heal you.

We’ve all been hurt before. Many of us still ache, even when in a new relationship. Most likely, you’ve been hurt before too, and you have emotional baggage, just like the rest of us. Now, this woman has come into your life to show you that love isn’t meant to hurt, but to heal. All she wants for you is to let go of the pain and allow yourself to be happy. She wants to be the person who helps you recover from the struggle. But she won’t be able to do it unless you let her.

7. Respect her.

This woman chose you for a reason. So instead of ignoring all the effort she puts into nourishing your relationship, better make sure you treat her with respect. You don’t have to praise her or act as if she was a princess. All you need to do is show her that her opinion matters and her effort is recognized.

Finding true love is difficult, but keeping it is even harder. So if you feel like she is the one, and you cannot imagine your life without her in it, do whatever it takes to keep her. If she is truly the one you can’t wait to share precious memories and grow old with, then all the effort you need to make will be worth it.