The great question that has never been answered, and which I have not yet been able to answer, despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, is ‘What does a woman want?’ – Sigmund Freud
When we don’t talk about our periods and how nasty they are, most of the time girls talk about guys. Be it from facebook, someone from school or university, and even a man we’ve seen only once on the street, …we talk about guys, a lot. I honestly can’t remember even one time when I haven’t spoken with my friends about men. And almost every time our discussions end with the conclusion that men are from Mars and women from Venus. Or in other words, we are so very different, that sometimes it’s tough to get along with each other and to understand each other correctly.
So if you are a man and sometimes find it hard to to get on well with your lady, you might want to read the list below.
It summarizes all those things that women actually want from men but hardly ever tell them that they do.
1. Lies and deception are some of the things girls hate the most, so try not to lie to us .
2. We don’t like men who boast.
3. Men who are obsessed with their bodies …
4. Get Piney. …
5. Most of us want the man to make the first move. …
6. A man who is obsessed with his looks is a no-no for most women.
7. Lying about your job or whatever else to look attractive makes you look pathetic
8. Don’t act dumb; it’s not interesting nor funny.
9. Girls want a mature guy for a partner, so be one, and maybe you’ll be able to find a gorgeous woman
10. Dressing nice is cool; please do it often
11. Girls need someone to listen to them especially when they are down, so, men, please do that
12. Women prefer being called beautiful rather than sexy
13. We want you to have eyes only for us
14. We really like talking so and we need to do that with our boyfriends too
15. We want to know if you miss us when we are away
16. It’s not necessary to pay the bill always
17. We like sex almost as much as you, and we also have sexual fantasies
18. Don’t be ashamed to kiss us and hug us in public, most of us really like that
19. We remember all details that men tend to forget. So don’t be surprised if we bring up something from a long time ago or mention something you can’t even remember.
20. We adore making cute pictures together with our partner
21. Most women think that anniversaries are significant. Please, make sure you remember them.
22. Women are tender creatures who need to receive love and feel a strong man’s protection all the time. So don’t ever forget to give us these things.
23. Send us romantic texts and leave romantic voice messages when we don’t answer the phone, this way we know you really love us and think about us.
24. Please talk to us and share your thoughts with us. We’ll do the same.
25. We want to know where you are at any given moment because we love you and we worry about you.
26. We adore surprises!
27. Be honest with us in a polite way. We don’t like being lied to.
28. We love cuddling in bed, especially after we’ve made love. So please do it more often.
29. We prefer not to tell us or show us when you think that another woman is hot.
30. Being a gentleman will never be out of fashion.
And if you still haven’t understood what women want to check out the quote below as it actually says it all:
A REAL man, the kind of man a woman wants to give her life to, is one who will respect her dignity, who will honor her like the valuable treasure she is. A REAL man will not attempt to rip her precious pearl from it’s protective shell, or persuade her with charm to give away her treasure prematurely, but he will wait patiently until she willingly gives him the prize of her heart. A REAL man will cherish and care for that prize forever. Leslie Ludy