There’s nothing wrong with cutting toxic people off. It’s called self-care!
Do you want to know the secret path to happiness? Fall in love with yourself!
Learning how to love yourself and accept all of your flaws and imperfections is much more valuable than being accepted by the society. Acknowledging your own worth and embracing who you truly are will give you the freedom you have desired so much.
It’s all about turning yourself into the person you’ve always dreamed of being. And doing it without any prejudice or care what others might think or say about you. But to achieve that, you need to gain the courage to stand up for yourself and defend your dignity and your beliefs. It’s time for you to let go of what doesn’t serve you and start living the life you truly deserve.
First, you need to become your own top priority.
Stop making other people’s wellbeing be more important for you than your own. Because at the end of the day, the only one who stays true to you is yourself. That’s why you need to focus your energy on your self-growth and listen to nothing else but your intuition. Well, this may sound a bit selfish, but no one else will take better care of you than yourself.
Once you start prioritizing yourself, you will finally understand that it’s not your responsibility to take care of other people’s problems.
Of course, you care about the people you love and you want to see them healthy and happy, but don’t let that cost you losing touch with yourself.
Many times it is better for you to mind your own business and let people handle their lives on their own. Besides, sticking your nose where you’re not actually needed, might backfire in a quite unpleasant way for you.
Next, you will realize that people are full of meaningless promises and unnecessary drama. When you learn how to value yourself more, you will see that some doors need to be closed. Not everyone has good intentions towards you, so you might need to reevaluate your friendships and your relationships with the people around you. Even with your family.
And if now you feel like cutting people off your circle will be difficult, remember this: You’re not missing out on anything when you’re getting your life together.
Probably one of the hardest truths you will need to accept on your journey is that not everyone deserves a second chance. In fact, some people don’t even deserve the first one. And they definitely don’t deserve you to chase them or beg for their attention. Those who only see you as an option have no place in your heart.
And as you start cutting toxic people off, you will see that you never needed to justify your actions to anyone.
You are the only person who gets to decide your next move. No one else has the right to change your direction, especially when you know in your heart you’re already on the right path. Of course, you can decide to listen to someone’s advice, but only if you are completely convinced their intentions are pure and they wish you good.
What’s more, loving yourself will show you how to break the chains of society’s influence over you.
You should never live your life only according to socially-accepted rules. This is your goddamn life, and you’re free to live it the way you want to. As long as what you’re doing is healthy for your body and your soul, no one else has the right to tell you differently. You’re not obligated to meet everyone’s expectations. Just your own. So stay true to what you want from yourself and for yourself. Nothing else truly matters.
And one more thing. The change you’re craving so much starts within you. Everything you’ve ever dreamed of is on the other side of your fear. If you truly wish to start living your best life, you should face your fears and welcome that change.
The truth is, no matter how much we resist it, change is inevitable. Therefore, you might as well just take over and make it your own way. You have the power to choose what’s good for you and who is worthy of being in your circle. Having this in mind, you are capable of so much more than you believe. Yes, you are!
It is time for you to find your true powers and embrace them.
And if this means cutting off people whose vibes don’t connect with yours, then you must do it. There’s nothing wrong with saying ‘no’ to things that are no longer good for you. Moreover, there is nothing wrong with taking care of yourself. You deserve to be treated well, not only by others but by yourself too.
So, focus your energy on your own self-growth, learn how to love your flaws, and start doing what’s best for your mind, body, and soul. May the next chapter of your life be a period of marvelous transformation.