Meaning over Glory: The Paradoxical Commandments
It was Mahatma Gandhi who said, “you must be the change you wish to see in the world.” In 1968, Kent M. Keith was a sophomore at Harvard University.
On his website, Keith recalls, “I saw a lot of idealistic young people go out into the world to do what they thought was right, and good, and true, only to come back a short time later, discouraged, or embittered, because they got negative feedback, or nobody appreciated them, or they failed to get the results they had hoped for. I told them that if they were going to change the world, they had to really love people, and if they did, that love would sustain them.
I also told them that they couldn’t be in it for fame or glory. I said that if they did what was right and good and true, they would find meaning and satisfaction, and that meaning and satisfaction would be enough. If they had the meaning, they didn’t need the glory.”
Keith wrote a book in 1968 called The Silent Revolution: Dynamic Leadership in the Student Council that included a list of 10 “Paradoxical Commandments.” The commandments were aimed at inspiring young people to be good, no matter what. Keith said, “I laid down the Paradoxical Commandments as a challenge.
The challenge is to always do what is right and good and true, even if others don’t appreciate it. You have to keep striving, no matter what, because if you don’t, many of the things that need to be done in our world will never get done.”
I personally have a printed copy of the Paradoxical Commandments on the wall in front of my desk. Every single day, I glance at these words and try my best to adhere to them.
The Paradoxical Commandments
by Dr. Kent M. Keith
People are illogical, unreasonable, and self-centered.
Love them anyway.
If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives.
Do good anyway.
If you are successful, you will win false friends and true enemies.
The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow.
Do good anyway.
Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable.
Be honest and frank anyway.
The biggest men and women with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest men and women with the smallest minds.
Think big anyway.
People favor underdogs but follow only top dogs.
Fight for a few underdogs anyway.
What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight.
People really need help but may attack you if you do help them.
Help people anyway.
Give the world the best you have and you’ll get kicked in the teeth.
Give the world the best you have anyway.