“Think like a queen. A queen is not afraid to fail. Failure is another stepping stone to greatness.”
When you meet a strong woman you will know.
She carries an unforgettable presence, one that is impenetrable and oozes of self-respect and success.
She has traveled to hell and back and each experience she has ever had is a chapter she has added to her book of life.
She is the captain of her own ship and queen of her own throne. A women who has triumphed every hurdle, every downfall and mastered her faults. She has built worlds from the pieces she once was and she did it all by herself. She relies on no one because she has realized that no one can truly satisfy her needs as well as she can. She respects and trusts herself well enough to go out and get what she wants.
She is confidant, ambitious, courageous, adventurous and daring, she realized a long time ago that these were the things needed to achieve her most desired goals and dreams.
However, she is still a woman – so she is soft and sensual, kind and loving, but remembers that she is not defined by anyone, let alone a man.
Strong women know what its like to be alone and have learned to make it work for them. In their loneliness they build empires. They find no need to bow down to men, they are not submissive and obedient, they are a force to be reckoned with. Step in their way and you will get scorched – for when a strong woman has her eyes set on the horizon you can bet that she is going there and beyond, no matter the cost.
She realizes that life is what you make it and that if she were to settle for anything less than extraordinary she would be compromising her integrity. So she sets boundaries and lives by her own law and no one, especially not an immature man, will be allowed to cross her line.
Strong women know the difference between maturity and immaturity.
She recognizes a man who is career driven and who is women driven. She knows how to tell the difference between a one night connection and a life long connection. She doesn’t dwell in the in between, she knows what she wants and she gets it.
Most importantly she knows that self love is the best way to love another and she will stop at nothing to get to a point where she is always full, because as the saying goes, you cannot pour from an empty cup.
You might be thinking, its easier said then done but the truth is, no matter what life throws at you, you are one decision away from becoming the best version of yourself that you could possibly be. You are the captain of your own ship and you are a Queen in your own right, Empress of your own empire and master of your own reality.
All you need is you and as Buddha says, “You yourself, as much as anybody in the universe deserves your love and affection.”