Sometimes The One Who Is Always There For Others Needs Someone To Be There For Them
When you are someone who is always ready to help others, the levels of your emotions can get quite high.
You are filled with kindness and sensitivity and you carry love and compassion for every living being. Your heart is made of pure gold and you are giving by nature. But keep in mind that these special qualities are often the reason for you getting hurt. You always give your all to those in need, but in turn, you exhaust your own energy.
You are hurting and wondering whether someone will ask how you’re feeling, whether you need any help.
Your heart suffers when you think of all the times you gave your soul to someone without getting even an ounce of appreciation back; all those times you helped people take care of their problems, and now, when you’re the one who’s down, there is no one to help you get back up.
So, you need some time to recover.
You must find the strength and courage inside you so you can stand tall and strong again. And, as it turns out, the time you spent on your own provided you with energy and a will to tell yourself that you don’t need to be saved and that you can face all the challenges life throws at you without the help of others.
But no matter how strong you may be, sometimes you do need to be helped…
There are times when even the toughest person needs someone to be there for them just like they are for the people around them. There are times when the one who smiles the brightest is the one who carries the most sadness and loneliness inside. There are times when the person who motivates and pushes others to believe in themselves also needs to be told that they matter.
Hence, if you are the kind of person who always helps others out, please keep in mind that your kind-hearted nature is a rare thing these days.
Also, understand that your ability to calm people down when they’re going through the worst times in their lives and make them laugh when they feel like crying is a priceless gift. Never forget that the healing powers you possess can inspire and help people to keep on going when times are hard. You give people around you a purpose to live and you teach them how to love themselves.
And that is why you should keep reminding yourself that you deserve every bit of positivity and love coming your way.
You deserve to have people in your life who would do anything to help you out, just as you do it for them. Because, after all, you are not made of steel.
You are a human being and you need rest, just like others do. You don’t have to carry all the troubles of the world on your shoulders. You don’t have to be everyone’s savior and it’s not your job to heal every disappointed heart out there. Sometimes, you need to take the time to heal too. And you need to do everything you can to give some of that energy you so selflessly give others to yourself.
And in conclusion, don’t forget that you don’t always have to be at 100%.
Sometimes, you too are allowed to ask for help and guidance. Because you are precious and you deserve someone to take care of you, just like the way you take care of those you love and cherish.
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