Narcissists are the worst possible group of people to get into a fight with because rather than trying to find a solution to the problem at hand, the they just turns vicious.
Instead of admitting their mistake, the narcissist will keep provoking you until you become enraged and then say that you’re overreacting.
At first they can seem like the sweetest people you’ll ever meet.
Even when they have ruined your nervous system and made you feel like crap, they will turn on their sweet side just to win you over again. They provoke you in order to crush you and being near them can be quite taxing.
Such people are great at what they do and they do enjoy it too. When it comes down to fighting with a narcissist, breaking away from them is the best solution. The more you argue with them the more you allow them to take control over your mind.
As they share their thoughts with you slowly their fakeness starts to dissolve and you can see them for the rotten souls they really are.
They will deceive you in any way they can and when you truly need their help they will simply disappear. They will cause you pain and suffering and never say sorry and mean it. And the more misery they bring down upon you the more satisfied they will be.
They put you down in all kinds of ways and when you try everything you can to make things work they will go against it. Narcissists never regret doing things they know they shouldn’t and they will claim victimhood status as many times as you allow them.
The more you let narcissists get close to you the farther away your prospects of happiness will go.
They attack you by gaslighting and in the end make you question your own sanity. You deserve more and the quicker you come to terms with that the better off you’ll be.
It’s not a crime to get upset over a nasty person trying to manipulate you and constantly pushing you out of your own skin. You are the only master of your life and you need to regain control over your happiness.
You didn’t overreact and accepting the blame for something you didn’t do will not cut it. And while it certainly won’t be easy getting your life back, you have more than enough strength in you to do just that!
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