It’s the beginning of a new day, a new year, and a whole new decade. It’s time for you to learn how to respect yourself and stop giving your love away for the wrong people. You owe it to yourself.
Forced love can never be real. Pushing yourself into uncertain relationships will seriously damage your mental health. You can’t change someone’s true nature, so stop trying to.
Give your love to the one that is absolutely ready for it.
Make 2020 the year of self-love and focus on your own wellbeing.
Another thing you need to stop doing is prioritizing everyone else’s feelings over your own. Bottling up your emotions and neglecting your needs to please someone else is never a good choice. People-pleasers are no longer in trend, so stop being one. Respect yourself enough to put your needs first.
Perhaps you already know how much it hurts to give your all to someone and not being appreciated. The feeling of being rejected, when all you wanted to do was loving and caring for someone, is awfully devastating. And yet, you still can’t learn your lesson. You still give your precious love to the one who doesn’t even deserve it.
You need to stop this madness right now.
If people you consider close are constantly neglecting you, avoiding you, or taking you for granted, you might need to reconsider your connection with them. Stop sacrificing your happiness for someone who doesn’t even recognize all the effort you put into making them happy. While you’re giving your all to keep someone else pleased, you are blocking yourself from fulfilling your own goals and dreams.
In reality, most of the people in your life will only stay for a little while to either make it wonderful or completely mess it up. Not everyone is meant to stay forever. That’s exactly why you need to learn how to tell the difference between fake and genuine people. You need to know whether someone is truthful and worthy of your love, or they are just using you.
If you only focus on making someone love you and fitting into someone’s frame, you will most probably lose yourself. And that’s one of the biggest losses that could ever happen in your life.
Next year, give your love only to those who truly deserve it.
Don’t let yourself forget your true self-worth. You are worthy of love, and you are worthy of being someone’s first choice. You deserve to be appreciated and loved. The longer you force yourself into loving the wrong person, the further you’re going from this sole truth. You can never have the affection you crave, while you’re wasting your energy for someone who doesn’t really care for you.
Give your love to someone ready to do whatever it takes to prove they deserve it.
Don’t settle for anything less than a person who is always going to be there for you, and will support you no matter what. Devote your energy to someone who will love you as much as you love them. Life is too short for spending it with the wrong people.
You deserve to be happy. Don’t let anyone take that away from you.