I Know You’re Hurting, But When A Loved One Decides You’re Not The One, You Have To Move On
The pain our hearts go through in life is sadly an inseparable part of it.
Mostly, the heartaches come when we least expect them. You sail through life on calm waters and suddenly, a storm breaks your ship in two. It hits you so hard that it feels like everything you’ve built in life is now reduced to tiny pieces.
And nothing is more painful than ending a relationship.
The realization that your partner’s feelings for you have faded and there’s nothing you can do about it is likely one of the most soul-crushing experiences you can go through.
I know how much it hurts, but when someone decides that you’re no longer the one, you must find a way to swallow the pain and keep on going.
Dust yourself off and start working on your dreams.
Let out all your emotions, but do not let them drag you down into the abyss.
Don’t blame yourself and don’t try to convince yourself that it was all your fault. Rather, try to be respectful of their decision and understand that the glories of life still await you…
When someone says they don’t feel the same anymore, that simply means that you weren’t meant for each other. And while that may close one door for you, it will open thousands of others.
I know it isn’t easy, but when someone decides that you’re not the one for them, don’t fight it… Just let them go and find their happiness.
Show yourself some love and stop running after someone who has already made up their mind.
I know that your heart is in pain, but you must find a way to seal the wound.
Find the strength to pull yourself together and stop living in the past.
There will be times when you will feel completely broken. You will cry and be tempted to send them a text or call them. But that won’t change anything.
Save your dignity and do not waste your time chasing ghosts.
But more importantly, save your emotions and your energy. If that relationship was meant to be, it would have continued.
So please don’t let this heartbreak stop you from searching for love and true happiness. You never know what life has in store for you. A better love might be just around the corner…
When a person decides that you are just not the one for them, respect their wish, move on, and start working on building a better future instead.
Do not waste your time and energy on someone who has already made up their mind.
Do not spend your time trying to figure out how to save a failed relationship. Thank them for the good times and start creating some new memories.
Your time as a couple has come to an end. And you can say all that you want, but at the end of the day, you won’t be changing their mind.
Keep your dignity and leave the past behind.
Do not worry, as time goes by, you will understand how much of a blessing this experience was. You are now still unable to see the truth, but very soon you will come to realize that you are stronger than you ever thought.
Yes, the pain can be unbearable, but when someone decides that it is time to let go, you have to honor their wish and move on to find someone who is right for you.
Life is too short to be wasted on trying to fix what cannot be fixed.
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