I don’t know what your specific definition of the word love is, and I don’t know what you’ve been taught about love while growing up. I also don’t know how much love you’ve received as a child or how loved you are today. But one thing I know for sure…
Love is not supposed to be a painful or wounding experience.
Love isn’t supposed to make people feel undervalued. It does require hard work, dedication, patience, compromises on both sides, and even many sacrifices.
However, when things get too far and you find yourself having to twist and turn in different directions just to get a crumb of someone’s affection, that is the moment when you have to stop yourself. You have to understand that the attention you fight for might be one-sided, and you might be getting the short end of the stick…
Because real love isn’t about getting on your knees for crumbs of attention.
It also isn’t about crying yourself to sleep because your partner has ignored you for days. It is not about constantly thinking whether you’re good enough for your partner and it isn’t about dreaming about being by their side when it is obvious they are simply avoiding you.
The definition of love is not “suffering”.
The men who have no issues with causing women pain, do not deserve their tears attention, and love.
Real men don’t make love feel hard to attain. They make it flow naturally, with ease.
Real men never hurt their partners and they love them with every fiber of their being.
Real men are not heartbreakers.
They care about their women and they do all they can to shield them from harm.
That is the simple reality.
Being with someone who doesn’t fit that description is just not worth your time. Remind yourself of that next time you find yourself crying over a man who just doesn’t care enough.
Real men are not extinct. They may be hard to find, but they’re out there.
And they love deeply and strongly. You can be sure of that.
Real men hold their women in the highest regard and they have enough self-respect to never allow themselves to lie or manipulate their partner.
They would never purposefully break the heart of the woman they love.
Real men care for their women and they love them with every fiber of their being. They are not afraid to tell them how much they love them and let them know how happy they are to have them in their lives. A real man would never give his woman a reason to doubt him.
Real men find their women to be the most precious things in their life.
They have their backs and they know their true worth. And above all, they are always honest about their feelings.
Anything less is just not worth it.
Never forget the man who deserves you will never make you question his love.
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