To every woman who gave too much of herself to the wrong person
You care too deeply for the people around you. You are always willing to give as much as you can to your relationships. That is truly admirable.
But don’t you give too much of yourself?
Some people are so selfless they get to the point where they compromise even with their personal mental and physical health. Unfortunately, it’s not always worth it.
If you are one of those people, then you are a remarkable human being. You always see the good in people, and you believe that everyone has that bright spark of kindness in them. You notice all the little beautiful details nobody else sees. This nature of yours is what makes you unique.
There is always a place for the outsiders in your heart.
The ones who don’t fit in the society because they’re different or unwanted. Your tenderness makes you want to help them and make them feel loved. You are often trying to figure out ways to fix their broken pieces. However, not everyone appreciates your highly sensitive soul. Often people use your kindness against you. Instead of accepting your help, they try to take advantage of you. Those people are going to drain your energy out until you have nothing left to give them.
What you need to know is that your goodness is in no way a weakness.
You deserve to receive love as deep and genuine as the one you are willing to give. Sadly, there are too many fake and disloyal people in this world. However, your pure heart wouldn’t allow you to focus on their bad features. A lot of them will leave you feeling mentally exhausted and disappointed before you meet the one who will change all that.
In your life, you’re going to pass through some unhealthy relationships with people that will constantly play mind games with you. They are going to use every opportunity they have to manipulate you. They will make you do things that are in their favor, without caring about your well-being at all.
It’s going to be hard to see the good in them, even though you would try your best.
And yet, you would never stop giving your heart and soul for them. On the other hand, they would never let you be anything but your best for them. Isn’t that ironic? Even though they would demand so much of you, your caring nature won’t let you hesitate to do whatever it takes to make them happy.
At first, those indecent individuals will fool you with sweet lines and beautiful stories, just to keep you on their hook. This is their way to slowly start draining every single drop of your vulnerable soul. As they say, the road to hell is paved with good intentions. In this case, the “good intentions” are the sweet lies they tell you to make you feel good until they stab you in the back.
This is not what love is, and you know it.
They only love the way you treat them and let them play with your head. They are not interested in your personality, they only want the attention you give them. This makes them feel powerful in some freaky sadistic way. Don’t expect such a self-centered person to want a genuine commitment with you.
You need to be truly loved. Not only for your selfless character but for all the other amazing things you are. You are not only a caregiver, you also need to be taken care of. These are not the people you want to be involved with. They will never give you the time and attention you need. You will never feel safe in their arms, and you will always be the person who has to take care of everything. This is nowhere near to a healthy relationship.
However, you are strong enough to never lose hope.
You know that one day you will meet the loving and trustworthy person you’ve always been looking for. The one who will make you forget all the disappointment and pain the others made you feel.
Eventually, you will be loved the way you deserve. Your genuine selfless nature is what makes you special. Just remember to always keep your spark. Never let yourself lose that.