Regardless of what your buddies tell you, women don’t normally voice out problems as soon as they spot them.
However, they drop big hints through changes in their behavior, hoping that you would notice on your own, and normally, become irritated when you do not. And by the time you do take action, it is often already too late to fix the damage. And God help you when that happens…
So, to avoid such a scenario, it can help to know what you should be paying attention to.
Here Are The 5 Most Common Mistakes Most Men Make In Relationships
1. Not listening
One of the most common complaints women have is that men are not paying attention to what they say. Men need to understand that naturally, women are verbally expressive and they need to be heard, instead of just being nodded at in empty-minded agreement. Of course, some women are more talkative than others, and if too much chattiness isn’t your cup of tea then don’t enter into such a relationship because you’d just be wasting each other’s time.
2. Not being mindful of her space
Of course, sharing your thoughts is healthy. And it’s also healthy to do things together. But is also good to keep a needed sense of space sometimes. Have your own hobbies and do things on your own and with your friends sometimes, and give her space to do the same. Making her feel needed is a positive thing, but being too needy yourself will sooner or later become too much for her to handle. A little space goes a long way in every healthy relationship.
3. Being too afraid or intimidated by her
Yes, women can be intimidating. But that does not mean that they will sit there and tolerate a man who is scared of them. Being in a relationship means that you are partners. And if she feels that you’re doing what she asks of you just because you’re afraid of her, don’t be surprised if she eventually dumps you.
4. Letting yourself go
Ambition and a will to improve are things many women put on top of their lists when it comes to a man’s desirable qualities. Women constantly think about the future, so they need a man who has something going on for himself, as well as for them as a couple. So, accepting mediocrity just won’t cut it for most women.
5. Putting something else before her
It goes without saying that no person likes it when their partner puts hobbies, work, or anything else above them. And be sure that she keeps a list of all the times you left her behind just so you can hang out with your friends or because you were too busy at work. Yes, you do need to take your work seriously, and you do need friends and hobbies in your life, but don’t forget that everything needs to be in balance if you want your relationship to stay healthy.
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