Many of us fear being single for long periods of time because of loneliness, however being single is better than feeling lonely in a shitty relationship
There’s no need to feel alone just because you aren’t dating someone.
Trust me, you’re better off alone than in a relationship with some asshole who takes you for granted. So many women get into half-hearted relationships because they are scared of being alone in life and possibly for the rest of their life so they end up stuck and unhappy.
Another reason why so many women end up in dead-end relationships is because of this stupid thing called the ‘biological’ clock.
They fear that the longer they remain single the faster their clock will tick. So what ends up happening to some is that they get into a relationship, have a kid and end up breaking it off with the baby-daddy or if they got married, they end up getting a divorce.
So I’m going to share a few reasons as to why it’s better to stay single until you actually find someone who is going to give a damn about you.
Firstly, being single gives you the opportunity to take care of yourself, to nurture yourself and to love yourself. These things are vital for any human being and if cultivated can serve you in ways you would never have imagined.
You get to focus and work on your career. When you’re single you don’t have to focus on anyone or anything else except you and your future.
When you start to focus on yourself and your future it’s almost impossible for you not to achieve success and happiness.
Relationships can be beautiful and they can be ugly, it all depends on whether or not the person you are committing to is committing to you. I don’t mean in the Facebook official way, I mean in the body, mind and soul kind of way. If they cannot commit to you like that then why bother wasting your precious time?
After all, time is the most valued and rarest commodity in the whole universe.
Use your time wisely, use it to work on yourself, to love yourself. Once you fully and truly love yourself you will notice how you don’t have time for people who aren’t willing to step up to your level. It’s not selfish wanting a certain kind of lover, it’s actually the opposite.
Stay single until you meet the right person.
The right person will never make you doubt yourself and the love you share. They will never leave you feeling alone in a room full of people. The right person will show up for you, they will know when some things up and will be there for you, both emotionally and spiritually. The right person will never ditch you for friends or avoid family gatherings, no, the right person will want to be a part of your life, no matter what that entails.
The right person is never going to break your trust nor stir doubt within you. The right person is going to stand with you no matter what, they are going to walk by your side on your road to success always motivating and pushing you to do your best in life. They will satisfy you on all levels, emotionally, mentally, spiritually.