7 Telling Signs You’ve Found Your Soulmate
“When you meet that person. a person. one of your soulmates. let the connection. the relationship. be what it is. it may be five minutes. five hours. five days. five months. five years. a lifetime. five lifetimes. let it manifest itself the way it is meant to be. it has an organic destiny. this way it stays or if it leaves. you will be softer. from having been loved this authentically. souls come into. return. open. and sweep through your life for a myriad of reason. let them be who. and what they are meant to be.” ~ Nayyirah Waheed
Relationships can be hard, but also confusing.
And whether you’re in your first or tenth relationship, you’ll always be confused about one thing – Is he/she my soulmate?
You will not be able to find the answer in the blink of an eye, but you can look for the signs that will guide you to get a clearer picture.
1. You can not imagine life without her/him
Just imagining life without them feels like a living hell. They are your entire world, happiness, sadness and everything in between. If they choose to go to hell you would be happy to come along (not literally).
If that is the case then they definitely qualify as your soulmate and you need to make sure to never let them go.
2. You feel their pain as your own
Nothing connects two people more than pain. If you are capable of powerful empathy you will understand that you have met your soulmate. You can sympathize strongly and share each other’s pain. Sharing emotions is a great sign.
When two people try to change each other, often relationships fall apart. Soulmates, in comparison, respect each other on a fundamental level. And this respect is based on truly knowing each other and each other’s flaws.
So if you find yourself truly accepting someone despite their flaws, and you feel that acceptance unconditionally directed back at you, this may qualify as a soulmate connection.
4. You give each other space
While you are synchronized with your partner and share all your news with each other, you don’t lose your individuality and respect theirs in turn. It is highly important you give each other space. And you understand that and are not afraid it will doom your relationship. Let them be free to enjoy their hobbies and spend time with their friends as you should too.
5. You never think about other people
You don’t even feel like glancing to the hottest guy or girl near you when you have found your soulmate. This will make you understand that your relationship is serious and worth protecting at any cost. You’ll never think that your relationship is a mistake or wonder whether you could have a better relationship with someone else.
6. Your chemistry is undeniable
You experienced a strong spark the moment you saw each other. It was like nothing you’ve ever experienced before and it overwhelmed you. You are both extremely attracted to each other in every way and your attraction for each other is unending.
7. You have never felt like this before
You realize that you never actually knew the meaning of true love before and your partner is the one who taught it to you. You cannot compare the love you both share to anything because you feel it’s out of this world. And this one is one of the top signs you found a keeper!
Have you met your soulmate yet? Do you think we may have missed something important on this list? Let us know in the comment section below.