So you have someone new in your life and things are going great! Well done! But don’t be too quick to celebrate. The start of a relationship is the best time to get to know the other person. Before you start flying into the clouds, make sure you are certain of what you’re dealing with. In short: Do not ignore those red flags!
The red flags you choose to ignore at the start can eventually cause your relationship to fall apart.
Save yourself future heartaches by paying close attention to these warning signs.
Be aware that not all the people you date will have the qualities needed for a life partner. Never go out with someone with your mind set for success. You should have zero expectations and remain detached.
You don’t have a clue who that person truly is yeat, and it will take time to get to know them.
So what are you supposed to do when those red flags start popping up?
1. Do not ignore them
If something doesn’t feel right with the man you are seeing, then you are most likely right. Females have been gifted with heightened cognitive senses, and you should use them to your advantage.
Never ignore your intuition! Also, avoid coming up with excuses for his behavior. He is not that “busy” with work. Men will always make time for the things that truly matter to them.
2. Listen to your inner voice
If you keep on ignoring your inner voice, the warning signals could appear in your body in the form of disease or injury. If your gut tells you that there’s something suspicious in his behavior, do not ignore it. Your wellbeing depends on it!
3. Don’t be afraid to walk away
If the red flags keep on appearing (the ones you know you wouldn’t be able to tolerate in a relationship), then you have to be willing to walk away for good. Men only change if they want to. Ultimatums and fits of anger will not work, and will only make you come off as crazy.
1. Keep an eye on the little things
Red flags don’t always have to revolve around things like infidelity. It’s the little things that matter too. For instance, let’s say you’re out with a wonderful, intelligent woman. You come back to the table and notice she has ordered another drink for herself but did not order one for you. That is selfish and inconsiderate and says a lot about who she truly is.
2. Looks are not what matters most
Women are fully aware that men are often rating them on a scale of 1 to 10. But just because she is a ’10’ does not mean you should let certain things slide. Let’s say she keeps on being late while you are always on time. Be sure that there is another gorgeous woman out there that would make a much better match for you.
Another thing about highly attractive women: They are human beings with feelings too. Beauty does not make her immune to emotions. Do not just go out with her because she is ‘hot’. Using a person like that will lead to trouble down the road.
3. Nobody’s perfect
There are many single ladies out there. But don’t forget that nobody’s perfect, and finding a lady who will truly connect with you is not easy. She may be imperfect, but so are you. And while red flags are certainly not to be ignored, you should not miss out on a woman just because she does not fit each one of your qualifications.
If you are looking for a flawless person, you are wasting your time! However, there will be a person that will be flawless in your eyes! Be honest with your self about what you truly want from a woman, and what you are willing to close your eyes to. The last thing you want is for her to be the one you let go!
What are some red flags you would urge people to be aware of?
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