A FEW LESSONS UNREQUITED LOVE TAUGHT ME
HOW TO ADMIT MY FEELINGS
When I fell so deeply for him I did not how to act. I was confused whether to confess what was going on in my soul or to remain silent, as he never seemed to be interested in me.
I was afraid but my friends gave me courage to reveal what I was feeling. And how relieved I was when I told him everything. I knew he wasn’t into me the way I was into him, but what matters is that I managed to open myself and set free one love that would have, otherwise, lived only in my heart.
NEVER SAY NEVER
Before I fell in love with this man who wouldn’t even notice me, I thought a woman like myself – beautiful, smart and proud could NEVER be in such situation. But it turned out that this very same woman had to hope for a little piece of love from a person who simply didn’t care. I lost my pride but I learned a precious lesson – to never say never!
SIGNS THAT THIS IS ONE-SIDED LOVE
Love changes everything and makes us blind to the point where we cannot see clearly whether the other person loves us back. Well, in my case love has always been coming from my part but I was refusing to accept the fact he is not responding the same way. I was hoping that one day he will see the situation through my eyes. But finally, I had to give this idea up. His signs that he would never see me as a loved one were more than obvious.
TIME IS TOO PRECIOUS TO WASTE IT
I learnt that if somebody does not have feelings for you, wasting time trying to make them fall in love is the worst decision to take. Begging for affection won’t make a cold heart melt for you. So, you’d better save your precious feelings and time for the one who will love you as you deserve it. And this person will surely come one day.
I CAN GET OVER THIS
I found the inner power to overcome this one-sided love. I went through the pain of not being loved and now I am better, stronger and ready for a true relationship. I know what real love is, I know how to love and I am sure there is a someone out there who will love me back the way I will love him!