How not to give a damn about what anyone thinks of you
As we grow up, we slowly but steadily realize that no matter what we do, we can’t make everyone happy.
And that’s perfectly okay.
What’s more, when we come to this realization, we see that others’ opinion is completely irrelevant.
So, in the best case, we stop caring about what would people say, and we start living our lives the way we truly want to.
We no longer waste time on trying to please everyone. Instead, we spend this time doing things we love, and that’s truly amazing.
Eventually, we stop giving a damn about what people think of us.
After all, no one is worth the time and attention, if they’re only interested in the surface. When someone is speculating and criticizing things that they don’t know even a fragment of, that’s a huge red flag not to be around that person. No one needs such a negative impact in their life.
You know what’s absolutely hilarious? When someone thinks that their toxic opinion matters. They give themselves too much importance, without even knowing what they’re talking about.
Unfortunately, most of the people still focus only on the bad side of the story and love to comment on it. That’s why our world today is filled with hatred and prejudice. All the negative energy people radiate is everywhere around us.
If you want to stay away from this nonsense, you need to learn how to ignore it. Because frankly, it’s absolutely everywhere, which makes it impossible to stay away from.
However, there are things you could do to truly stop caring about people’s opinion.
To begin with, you could learn how to keep your head high, even when someone tries to bring you down. It’s not as easy as it sounds, but it’s essential if you want to scare the negative energy away. All you need to do is believe in yourself and realize that what people say shouldn’t affect your own personal journey.
There is always more than meets the eye. You may see that, but most of the people don’t. That’s why they feel free to criticize without knowing the whole truth. And once they decide they simply don’t like you, they start speculating on every little step you make. But this shouldn’t bring you down. In fact, it should lift you up because you know you’re not as shallow and ignorant as them.
The truth is, such toxic people will never change. So don’t waste your time wondering why they are like that. Instead, you can spend some time figuring out how not to give a damn about their opinion.
You are who you are. No one has the right to judge you without truly knowing the real you. So don’t let anything stay in your way and intoxicate your journey, especially if that’s someone’s negative opinion.
The world is going to judge you no matter how good, beautiful, or skilled you are, so live your life however the hell you want to.