One of the most common relationship issues may be men needing their space.
You meet that amazing guy and you feel like things just going great. You can’t help it, you just want to spend as much time as you can with that person. You are in touch 24/7 and it’s all going fantastic.
But all of a sudden, he starts being more distant. You end up trying to understand what in the world went wrong because you thought everything was going great!
Could it be about something wrong you did or said?
Well, it’s kind of both. Here is a little tip for you…
When falling in love many men need their space!
It isn’t a lie. Men need emotional connection as much as women do, but at times, giving them some space can actually boost your relationship more.
Keep in mind that women and men are wired in different ways.
And the reality is that while women often fall for a man because they are spending quality time with him… men usually solidify their feelings in the space between spending time with you.
A man can have a fantastic time on a date with you and see you as the best thing that could have possibly happened to him thanks to the deep bond you have started to form. However, it is the spaces between the times you are together that truly give him the chance to reflect and recognize his true feelings for you.
Maybe he is working and he is extremely busy but his mind is free. When he hasn’t seen or talked to you in a while, his mind will start focusing on you. He might wonder what you are up to and how your day is going.
He might even wonder who you’re spending time with and start feeling a little jealous, thinking that you may be having a nice time with another man. Because you have spent a little time apart, he is just unsure what you are doing and that will create a little mystery for him.
Here are some easy ways to give him the space he needs
Alright, maybe you already know that giving him space is good advice. But a common issue women are faced with is that because of our inert differences, it can be hard to recognize when you are going over the line and smothering him.
A clever way to keep things going steady without being overwhelming is being more responsive in your reactions. For instance, he calls you one day, and the next time you let him call you.
Should he not answer, resist calling him again! Leave the ball in his court. If his feelings are at the right place, he will call you back.
The same goes for messaging. It isn’t hard to go overboard with messages because it’s so easy and common practice today.
But showering a man with 15 messages within an hour in comparison to his 2 can start to make him feel a bit hunted.
Making him feel this way is surely not what you want, so reminding yourself that sometimes “less is more” can be of immense help to you.
What is the best reason to give him space?
When you give him his space, he starts thinking about the last time you were together more and more. What a great time you had, how much he loves to hear you laugh and the way your eyes shine when you two look at each other, and suddenly this strange phenomenon starts to happen.
He starts missing you!
And when a man starts missing you, you’ll know that you have made a powerful emotional impact that may very well lead to a future together… family and all!
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