For some people, “relationship” is just a word. For others, a relationship is something that requires time, effort, input, passion, and love. For all the things we put into our relationships here are some very basic things we should always get out of them:
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1) Respect:
Mutual respect matters a lot when it comes to a relationship. Many relationships fail based on a lack of mutual respect alone. In a good relationship, both partners admire and respect each other. A relationship can’t be strong or long-term without respect on a mutual level.
2) Freedom:
In a relationship, both partners should have the freedom to do things on their own. That means the freedom to spend time with other people and do their own thing. Every one deserves to be free, in fact, taking some time alone is a good thing in a relationship. A healthy relationship means not trapping the person you love.
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3) Appreciation:
Appreciation is a small thing that can have a big impact on relationships. Again, just like with respect, appreciation needs to be mutual. As much as you want it too, your partner needs appreciation for the things they do for you. Never take someone for granted, trust me it’s not gonna do any good for the relationship. Every one deserves to be appreciated for how much they put in to their relationship.
4) Understanding:
Relationships can turn bitter if they lack mutual understanding. You must try to understand your partner no matter how hard that can be sometimes. Only then, you will realize what kind of person he/she is. You need to understand the situation to find a result, so you could avoid conflicts. You and your partner both deserve and need understanding if you are going to be in a long-term, happy relationship.
5) Trust:
Trust is the backbone of any relationship. Without trust, relationships collapse. No matter if you have all of the other qualities of a great relationship, trust is a must. A relationship is not likely to last long without trust.
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6) Communication:
Communication is absolutely paramount in a relationship. Conversations in which both of you are fully present without getting distracted by gadgets or interrupting with arguments are the key. You must be able to tell everything to your partner and your partner should feel comfortable in doing the same. You and your partner should both feel like you can openly discuss anything with each other patiently without arguing.
