Dear Ex, Thank You For Stopping Me From Making The Biggest Mistake Of My Life… Marrying You

I’m at a stage in my life where all my friends are either in long-term relationships or married with kids.

I am neither of those things and my friends often tell me that sometimes they are jealous of my freedom… And to be honest, sometimes I believe them because I am happy with my life.

But sadly, there are times when I start feeling like I’m a little behind in my life…that I maybe I made a mistake somewhere down the road. On second thought, it was my long-term relationship that gave me nothing but pain and anger. I was deeply depressed but I became so comfortable with my own misery that I didn’t even notice how low I had sunk. And to make things worse, that was the person I planned on starting a family and spending the rest of my life with.

And thankfully I dodged that bullet.

Thank God I found the strength to leave that toxic relationship behind.

Ever since I have been enjoying life to the fullest. I feel happy and I feel at peace. I am doing the things I love without anyone holding me back. That’s why I have little to no regrets for leaving this person, and I am thankful that I realized the truth before jumping in and making the biggest mistake of my life.

If I had made that grave mistake, I may have lost the chance to meet someone who would truly love me for who I am and be there for me through thick and thin…

Someone who values me and doesn’t take me for granted.

So this is a message to my ex: Thank you for being the worst and the best decision I have ever made. I will always be grateful for you treating me like I was disposable because now I can truly appreciate the one who will treat me with dignity.

Thank you for helping me realize my worth.

I am so happy that you made me understand that true love doesn’t make a person feel insignificant like you were making me feel. I want to thank you for doing all that you did because you pushed me towards living a better and more meaningful life.

And I wish you the best of luck in the future.

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