When you find yourself in a situation where you’re trying to find out how to catch a cheater, it likely means that your intuition is sensing trouble.
You have no hard evidence and yet your gut is telling you that your partner might be seeing someone else behind your back.
And you should know that if this is how you feel, you’re probably onto something.
The truth is; as long as you’re out there trying to find out how to catch a cheater, it means that something set you off in that direction.
Deep inside, you might already know that they’re not being loyal to you; all you need is solid proof…
…and here are some ways you might get to it:
1. Your partner is spending less time with you, and less time at home
One of the biggest red flags pointing to a cheater is when they start spending less and less time at home without a good reason for doing so. And one of the most commonly used excuses for a cheater would be saying they don’t have time to be at home because of work. So if all of a sudden your partner starts coming home later than usual or reserves more and more weekends for his business, know that there might be something rotten in the whole picture. Sure, they might actually be busy at work, but this is likely not the case (if they truly love you).
2. Fights, followed by your partner exiting the house
Most cheaters intentionally try to start fights, slam the door and walk out, because it makes for a great excuse to leave home and meet their lover. If your other half has been starting fights and walking out of the house on a regular basis, try to follow them on the pretense of apologizing (should they see you following them) to find out what’s really going on.
3. Observe what they do
When we fall for someone, naturally we try to impress the other by looking great, keeping fit, or using a strong seductive perfume.
If you believe your partner might not be loyal, then simply observe his activities and pay close attention to the changes that they’re making to themselves visually. They may have a good reason for these changes…
4. They’re always on their phone
Strange and excessive phone usage is one of the key signs that your partner is being unfaithful. If they exit the room each time the phone rings and won’t say who they’re talking to it may be a red flag. If they are carrying their mobile around with them at all times, they might be trying to make sure you don’t see anything you shouldn’t.
5. They reject you sexually
If your partner is seeing someone else, then he might reject and would avoid being intimate with you. Try to engage in spontaneous sex with them. If they reject you or get upset, chances are they may already be satisfied down there…
6. They want more space
A little time on our own or with friends is something we all need in a relationship, whether we admit it or not. But if your partner has started being overly-protective of their space, there could be something off in the whole picture. Do they avoid answering questions about their whereabouts or what they’ve been up to? If the answer is yes, then this is your warning sign.
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