You can’t possibly know how to love and care for a person, before getting to know them. In reality, no one can. To know how to treat a person, you have to let them teach you. So let them.
Love is the most wonderful and complicated feeling of all. It constantly challenges us and drives us crazy. It’s amazing and illogical. Nothing compares to it. And no one knows the right formula.
There is no question modern relationships require a lot of work to be successful. That’s why when we’re in love, we have to do our best into getting to know our significant other. It takes a lot of effort and energy, but if the love is real, trust me, it’s worth it.
The most loving thing you could say to your partner is: “Teach me how to love you.”
Letting someone show you how to love them is genuinely deepening your connection and strengthening your bond. Becoming aware of their thoughts and feelings will give you the power to love them in the best way possible.
When it comes to a modern intimate relationship, no one knows what they’re doing. We are so busy trying to figure out ourselves, that we no longer put enough effort into loving someone else. We just go with the flow and wait for things to happen without doing anything. And when nothing happens, we blame it on the weather, or the age we live in, or else.
What we need to learn is that the important things in life don’t come easy. We have to fight for them. We have to take enough time to learn how to love.
Relationships are not all the same. There is no right way to love. Once you realize that, you will see that to make things work, you have to take some action. If you want to be loved right, first learn how to love.
Teach me how to love you, and I will teach you how to love me.
In order to bloom, a flower must be taken care of. It needs lots of water and sunlight. Love is the same. When you’re in a relationship, you have to make sure your partner feels appreciated and loved. They should never forget how much you care for them. Both of you need to learn how to treat each other with devotion and tenderness.
Of course, you can ask your therapist or a friend of yours to help you become more intimate with your partner. But let’s face it, no one can really tell you what’s going on or what you should do but your significant other. Everyone else is either speaking from their own perspective or still trying to figure out their own lives.
No one can teach you how to love your partner but them.
You can start by showing your other half how to love you. Have a conversation about what you like and what drives you insane. Tell them that story about your childhood pet. Talk them through your past relationships and why they failed. Ask them to do the same. Good, quality conversations are the most powerful foundation of any relationship.
Along with that, ask your partner what you can do to make them feel loved. Show interest in their true selves. Write down their answers if needed. Be aware of the way your actions make them feel.
Another thing both of you can do is after telling each other what would make you feel loved, talking about ways to appreciate your efforts. Showing appreciation is also crucial for building and keeping a healthy relationship. When people feel loved and appreciated, they feel happy. And what’s better than being happy next to the person who is the reason for your happiness?
You are on this journey together.
Never miss a moment to show how much you love your partner.
If your love is real, they will surely do the same for you.
