advice

It is always kind of surprising and flattering when someone comes to me for relationship advice. Surprising on one hand because I am 34-year-old, never-married, consummate bachelor. Flattering because there are people that realize that I…

I think that one of the most important things that a person can develop in their life is self-confidence. When you don't just think that you can do something, but you know in your soul that there is nothing that can stop you - well, there…

One constant in life is that there will always be challenges. Some big. Some small. Either way, there are going to be times in life when it seems like the problems are adding up faster than you can fix them. The "snowball" effect can bury…

Internal sabotage is as harmful to many relationships as external cheating, and causes just as many problems between humans who are otherwise committed to each other. While external causes -fooling around or sexual involvement with someone…

Wisened beyond their years. Unexpectedly insightful. Worldly. However you explain it, you know when you encounter an old soul. You see, the funny thing about wisdom is the fact that it doesn't always have a direct correlation to age. For…

One of the greatest pieces of advice I think I've ever gotten in life was to "know the difference between a rut and a cul-de-sac." A rut is something you can get out of and keep moving forward on your way to achieving whatever it is that…

A very, very wise man once told me that if at the end of your life you could count your REAL friends on one hand, that you had lived a truly blessed life. That's an idea that has stuck with me throughout my entire life. I've gone through…

The topic of ADHD is a touchy one for a lot of people, myself included. Mainly, because I think that it is an over-used diagnosis in kids and now even in adults. I'll admit, the first time I heard about "adult-level" ADHD I thought to…

It sounds like a strange concept at first glance: setting limits to free yourself. That sounds like building fences to be free to explore. The thing with life is that we spread ourselves so thin. The thinner we are spread, the less impact…