When you are alone, you are in a deep state of peace.
You learn how to think clearly and be calm in times of despair. You learn ways to make yourself happy without the presence of others. You learn how to find joy in the little things life has to offer.
Being a lone wolf requires self-protection, and hence, your boundaries are firm and clear. Of course, this does not mean you are weak or scared of suffering. Also, it does not mean you don’t sometimes need to be vulnerable. It doesn’t mean you fear diving into the unknown. It simply means that you are purposefully distancing yourself from toxic situations and people. It means that you are smart enough to not let everyone take advantage of you and leave your heart and soul injured.
Being alone brings independence.
It gives you the ability to learn how to be self-sufficient and work on your weaknesses. When you are alone, you don’t call others to beg them for help and cry on their shoulders. You get yourself together and deal with your problems in the best way you can. You know how to care for yourself and you don’t need others to pull you out of the gutter.
Don’t be too harsh on yourself for being alone on holidays.
It’s alright to not have a partner by your side when your best friend is getting married. You may think people pity you, but you are in fact brave, confident, and mature. And only a person with these qualities can be unbothered by what others think.
Some people may see you as selfish or arrogant, but the reality is – you have a big heart.
And once you meet the right person, they will be surprised by how caring and loving you are. Because your love is pure and true. You are not into games. You are okay with being alone, and if you decide to let another person into your life, that person should be kind and honest, just like you are.
Your freedom and independence are only worth giving up for that special person. And we are sure that they will find their way into your life soon.
Because you deserve it.
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