An open letter to the woman who has it all
She has it all. A beautiful family, loving friends, trustworthy colleagues, decent career, great social life, and all that with the 24 hours a day we all have.
But how does she do it? How does she manage to sustain a wholesome relationship with her partner, look after her children, stay connected to her parents, be there for her friends, excel in her profession, and lead a healthy lifestyle all at the same time?
Well, she has the spirit of a true warrior and the heart of a fierce lioness. She is perfectly aware of her remarkable potential, and she never allows herself to lose faith in her abilities. Even now, in these challenging times, she manages to wake up every morning with a smile on her face, fully motivated to make the best out of her day. While there are days when she feels a little less driven to get out of bed, after all, she is only human, she always puts 100% into everything she does.
As a wife, a mother, a daughter, a sister, a friend, and a woman, she strives to be the best version of herself.
She makes her significant other feel like the most loved and cherished person on Earth. She takes care of her kids, ensuring they have the most amazing childhood, filled with touching memories and essential life lessons that will guide them as they grow. She keeps in touch with her parents, letting them know she would always be there for them. She keeps her social life on point, making sure she surrounds herself with people who inspire her to move forward and invest in her personal growth. As of her career, she goes the extra mile to constantly learn and advance in her field.
This woman seems extraterrestrial, doesn’t she? She sounds as unreal as a fictional character. But she is the most real one of them all. Because she is YOU.
That’s right! You can be the woman who has it all. In fact, you are the woman who has it all. You just need a little reminder.
You need to remind yourself that you are enough. You are doing the best you can for the people you love. You are investing all of your time and energy into making sure those around you are safe and sound, while also looking after yourself. Well, there are times you forget about yourself while taking care of everyone else, but it’s only because you are fully devoted to the ones you care for. Seeing them happy is the most rewarding feeling for you.
Still, you manage to do so much in so little time. You go above and beyond to unveil your outstanding potential. You wake up, take a shower, do your makeup and your hair, cook breakfast for the little monsters who are still in their beds(including your husband), iron their clothes, make yourself a cup of freshly brewed coffee, which helps you mentally prepare for work, and hop in the car, fully equipped to conquer the day. If this is not heroism, I don’t know what is.
And when you get to work, you turn into this bold hustler who has her priorities straight and knows exactly where she wants to be on the ladder. You are perfectly focused on your goals and you never allow anyone to distract you from the professional path you have chosen for yourself.
You are already the boss babe millions of women dream of becoming.
Even when there are family issues demanding to be resolved, you never let yourself mix your career with your personal life. Yet, you manage to keep a perfect balance between the two. That’s what makes you a real champion.
You have a beautiful family, loving friends, trustworthy colleagues, a decent career, and a pretty great social life. Life may not be easy these days, but you are still moving forward with the same enthusiasm as always. And when the enthusiasm starts to fade, you have your circle of loving people to remind you why you should never even think of giving up.