When it comes to love, there are some people that believe whole-heartedly in the concept of a “soul mate”, that one person on this planet who was made specifically for you.
If You’ve found your soul mate, then you know how wonderful it can be to have found someone that seems perfect for you. There are some people that constantly search to find them, but may not realize that what they are looking for in right in front of them.
Here are 4 things to look for that are a pretty good sign that your soul mate is closer than you think:
1. Who You Are Is Good Enough:
When you are with the right one, they will love you for who you are, not for who they want you to be. Part of being in a long term relationship is realizing that everyone is different and they have their imperfections. If your partner accepts those imperfections, he/she really is in love with you. Your partner shouldn’t try to mold you into something you’re not, if they do they don’t love you as a person.
2. Best Friends:
You truly seem to be made for each other when your partner is your best friend. Do you feel free to let out your nerdy and crazy side when your partner is with you or do you both do crazy things together? If yes, you can be sure that you and your partner are made for each other. The best relationships are based on true friendship and respect. Being friends with your partner allows you to do things together as a team, that helps in bonding you together. Being friends with your partner also allows you to know and learn about your partner. Also, you can’t imagine breaking up with them, because you will lose a partner and a best friend if you break up with them.
Even the healthiest relationships deal with their share of arguments. arguments and disagreements are normal, even when you are with your “made for each other” partner. Just because you have found your soul mate, doesn’t mean that there will be no arguments in the relationship. It just means that when you do argue, you do your best to fight fair.
You will listen to each other patiently, without arguing, and you will never hesitate to apologize when you make a mistake. High drama and lot’s of arguments are some definite red flags when it comes to long-term relationship success. Every couple fights and argues but when you are with the right person your fight’s won’t last long, and you feel worse about the fact that you’re fighting with your partner.
4. Can’t Imagine A Life Without Them:
When you come to this point in your relationship, you can make pretty much rest assured that you and your partner are made for each other. When you meet “The One”, it’s important that you’re both on the same page and that it is the only page either of you want to be on. You will laugh at the same stupid things, you will finish each other’s sentences, and you will adore everything about each other. You literally can’t imagine a life without them.